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Finding Neverland, or Finding Those Keys

By Cyndi Seidler
07/18/06

I am not the type to preach about being organized and, in my profession, luckily it comes in the form of advice consultation.

"So, you can't ever find the dog leash, huh?" I once repeated after someone's remark about always losing their dog leash. You would think that after buying a dozen dog leashes to replace the one lost before the last one had mysteriously disappeared that they would have a clue that a particular place to put the leash was needed so it could be retrieved quickly.

Oh my, the simplicity of being organized.

It's great; just mention the idea of having a place for something and you might find a very relieved, very happy person on your hands. It's like you've just saved them and given them a new leash on life (ok, it's a new "lease" on life).

This is the type of thing that makes my job very rewarding. Once you've become a person's savior, they will think twice about going back to their life of chaos.

Just recently, one client welcomed my second visit with a "I'm so happy" report that one would think that I had paid her for such a testimonial of being organized. And all I did during my first visit was clear some clutter and show her where she could put her keys. I was wondering what she would do when I show her where she could hang her sweater.

Creating a safe haven, a place to come home to and relax, is all about how well you can function in that space. And to function well, there must be order. Therefore, if a person ever wants to save themselves from the complexity of chaos, all they need to do is establish a place for everything and put everything in its place. This is difficult to do with too much stuff though.

See, a person surrounded by too much stuff is a person who hasn't created their Neverland yet. They have become immersed in belongings that take more space than they have. Therefore, to live in harmony, just lighten up; take a load off under your feet. In other words, chuck the stuff.

That's the way to find your Neverland. And, even though everyone's Neverland is different, it is always a peaceful place -- a nirvana.

Nevertheless, in my business, when you give someone Neverland who couldn't find it themselves, you can count on some good marks toward your sainthood. And, I'm sure the times I cuss will probably be forgiven.

Copyright 2006 Cyndi Seidler. All Rights Reserved.

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